Generous Hearts Stewardship Series #2
INTRODUCTION:
PRAYER
I want to read a little book to you by one
of my favorite children’s authors, Judith Viorst. She’s best known for her book
Alexander and the Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day, which was made into a
movie and is in theaters, now.
This is another Alexander book titled: Alexander,
Who Used to Be Rich Last Sunday. (Read The Book Out Loud)
] It isn’t fair
that my brother Anthony has two dollars and three quarters and one dime and
seven nickels and eighteen pennies.
It
isn’t fair that my brother Nicholas has one dollar and two quarters and five
dimes and five nickels and thirteen pennies.
It
isn’t fair because what I’ve got is. . . bus tokens.
And
most of the time what I’ve mostly got is. . . bus tokens.
And
even when I’m very rich, I know that pretty soon what I’ll have is. . . bus
tokens. I know because I used to be rich. Last Sunday.
Last
Sunday Grandma Betty and Grandpa Louie came to visit from New Jersey. They
brought lox because my father likes to eat lox. They brought plants because my
mother likes to grow plants.
They brought a dollar
for me and a dollar for Nick and a dollar for Anthony because – Mom says it
isn’t nice to say this – we like money. A lot. Especially me.
My
father told me to put the dollar away to pay for college. He was kidding.
Anthony
told me to use the dollar to go downtown to a store and buy a new face. Anthony
stinks.
Nicky
said to take the dollar and bury it in the garden and in a week a dollar tree
would grow. Ha ha ha.
Mom said if I really
want to buy a walkie-talkie, save my money. Saving money is hard.
Because
last Sunday, when I used to be rich, I went to Pearson’s Drug Store and got
bubble gum. And after the gum stopped tasting good, I got more gum. And after
that gum stopped tasting good I got more gum. And even though I told my friend
David I’d sell him all the gum in my mouth for a nickel, he still didn’t
wouldn’t buy it. Good-bye fifteen cents.
Last
Sunday, when I used to be rich, I bet that I could hold my breath till 300.
Anthony won. I bet that I could jump from the top of the stoop and land on my
feet. Nicky won.
I bet that I could hide
this purple marble in my hand, and my mom would never guess which hand I was
hiding it in. I didn’t know moms made children pay. Good-bye another fifteen
cents.
I
absolutely was saving the rest of my money. I positively was saving the rest of
my money. Except that Eddie called me up and said the he would rent me his
snake for an hour. I always wanted to rent a snake for an hour. Good-bye twelve
cents.
Anthony
said when I’m ninety-nine I still won’t have enough for a walkie-talkie. Nick
said I’m too dumb to be let loose. My father said that there are certain words
a boy can never say, no matter how ratty and mean his brothers are being. My
father fined me five cents each for saying them. Good-bye dime.
Last
Sunday, when I used to be rich, by accident I flushed three cents down the
toilet. A nickel fell through a crack when I walked on my hands. I tried to get
the nickel out with a butter knife and also my mom’s scissors. Good-bye eight
cents. And the butter knife. And the scissors.
Last
Sunday, when I used to be rich, I found this chocolate candy bar just sitting
there. I rescued it from being melted or smushed. Except the way I rescued it
from being melted or smushed was that I ate it. How was I supposed to know it
was Anthony’s. Good-bye eleven cents.
I
absolutely was saving the rest of my money. I positively was saving the rest of
my money. But then Nick did a magic trick and made my pennies vanish into thin
air. The trick to bring them back he hasn’t learned yet. Good-bye four cents.
Anthony
said even when I’m 199, I still won’t have enough for a walkie-talkie. Nick
said they should lock me in a cage. My father said there are certain things a
boy can never kick, no matter how ratty and mean his brothers are being. My
father made me pay five cents for kicking it. Good-bye nickel.
Last
Sunday, when I used to be rich, Cathy around the corner had a garage sale. I
positively only went to look. I looked at a half melted candle. I needed that
candle. I looked at a bear with one eye. I needed that bear. I looked at a deck
of cards that was perfect except for no seven of clubs and no two of diamonds. I
didn’t need that seven or that two. Good-bye twenty cents.
I
absolutely was saving the rest of my money. I positively was saving the rest of
my money. I absolutely positively was saving the rest of my money. Except I
need to get some money to save.
I tried to make a tooth fall out –
I could put it under a pillow and get a quarter. No loose teeth.
I
looked in Pearson’s telephone booths for nickels and dimes that people
sometimes forgot. No one forgot.
I
brought some nonreturnable bottles down to Friendly’s Market. Friendly’s Market
wasn’t very friendly.
I
told my grandma and grandpa to come back soon.
“Last Sunday, when I used to be rich, I
used to have a dollar. I do not have a dollar any more. I’ve got this dopey
deck of cards. I’ve got this one-eyed bear. I’ve got this melted candle.
And. . . Some bus tokens.” (1)
Alexander needs to change doesn’t he? He
needs a better understanding and stewardship of money. A lot of us are like
Alexander. We know the old saying “Money talks” is true because ours keeps
saying “Good-bye.” So what is it we need to learn about stewardship that will
help us like Alexander. Well, first we need to remember that the Biblical
witness concerning stewardship is very simple. You find it in the first words
of both the Old and New Testaments. OT “In
the beginning, God.” And NT “In the
beginning was the Word” (which we know refers to the Son of God).
For
the believer, these phrase put everything else into proper perspective. It
tells us that everything that was and is and will be comes from God. It was
created by God and given to us to use responsibly. We are the stewards, the
caretakers of God’s stuff. And since everything was created by God, it’s all
God’s stuff, including money. The mistake we make is that we think of it as OUR
money.
Having said that, you might have guessed
that this is what I always refer to in a Stewardship Campaign as “The Sermon on
the Amount.” Let’s look at the two passages I’ve picked for this morning.
Malachi 3:10, Luke 6:36-38 (NRSV)
[10]
Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in my
house, and thus put me to the test, says the LORD of hosts; see if I will not
open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you an overflowing
blessing.
Luke 6:36-38 (NRSV)
[36] Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
[37] “Do not judge, and you will not be judged; do not
condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven;
[38] give, and it will be given to you. A good measure,
pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap; for the
measure you give will be the measure you get back.”
Last week I told you about Mr. Dick and
his generous heart. And I told you how few people knew what kind of giver he
was. His life was an example of the three different kinds of giving that we
find in the Bible. First there is the Tithe, then there is the Offering. And
then there is Second Mile giving.
I. THE TITHE:
A. The
Biblical witness for giving is the Tithe or ten percent. From the very beginning
all God has ever asked for is a Tithe. Everything we have and are comes from
God and is really God’s to begin with, and all God asks is that we return a
portion as a means of giving thanks. And God said that portion should be ten
percent or a tithe. And that tithe should be from the first fruits not the
leftovers.
Some people don’t think it matters which
portion they give to God; the first fruits or the leftovers, but it does. What
if I asked you if you wanted to share a candy bar but didn’t offer to break off
a piece but ate the candy bar down to the last bite and handed the rest to you.
How would you feel?
You see if you give God the leftovers,
that’s like eating an apple and giving God the core. And the apple core isn’t
very appealing is it?
In 2 Chronicles 31, it tells us that
during the Feast of Unleavened Bread, when Hezekiah was king of Judah, an order
went out for the offering. In verse 5 it is recorded. “As soon as the order went out, the Israelites generously gave the
first fruits of their grain, new wine, oil and honey and all that the fields
produced. They brought a great amount, a tithe of everything.”
God wants us to give but God doesn’t want
the leftovers. You wouldn’t give them to your children or your spouse would
you? You throw scraps and leftovers to the dog, not God. God doesn’t want
leftovers. God wants a tithe of our first fruits.
B.
Tithing is the Biblical standard. Tithing is also an act of faith; faith and
trust that God will supply what we need if we get to the point where there was
too much month for our paycheck. That’s usually everybody’s fear. But Tithing
is a matter of faith, not fear.
For some, this may be the first time
you’ve ever heard about tithing and how much God expects us to give to the work
of God. You may be sitting there scared to death or angry or even trying to
figure out how you can tithe when you hadn’t ever thought about how much you
should give to the Church.
I understand and God understands. So, let
me suggest something to you. It’s called “Proportional Giving.” It’s not an
alternative to the tithe but a tool to achieve the tithe.
If you find the tithe, ten percent, too
staggering a place to start, then find that percentage where you can start. If
it’s five percent, then pledge and start giving 5%. But don’t leave it there.
Test God and stretch your faith. Make it a spiritual challenge to increase your
offering 1% every month. Keep trusting God, and keep slowly challenging
yourself to increase your giving every month until you have moved yourself up
to the Biblical standard, the tithe.
I promise you will be blessed. And you
will become rich in your generosity and good works.
II. THE OFFERING:
A. If
you’ve noticed the bulletin, our time of giving is called Tithes and Offerings. Have ever wonder, “What’s the difference between a tithe and an offering?” A tithe is
what God expects. It’s where our giving begins. An offering is gifts above the
tithe. These gifts are offered out of joy and gratitude and generosity for what
God has done in our lives through Christ.
When my Uncle Kenny died and left us a
little money, the first thing we did was tithe it. We gave part to the church,
part to the camp and part to another ministry. Then as a thank offering I did
something I’ve wanted to do for the last 20 years. We set a scholarship for
seminary students. It’s not a huge scholarship, but it’s enough to help. And
when you’re in seminary, every little bit helps.
We did other little things as well. We had
fun giving it away. It was exciting trying to find ministries to bless. But
while giving these offerings, we still tithed.
The motive behind the Tithe is obedience
and faithfulness. The motive behind the Offering is Sacrificial Love. As
Christians we sacrifice for others and the church because we are the recipients
of Christ’s sacrifice. The gifts of love, renewal, redemption, forgiveness,
hope, peace, joy, you name it, all of these gifts that we, as Christians, have
received freely. And in response, we give just as freely. And when we give an
Offering, we give Sacrificially in response to the Sacrificial Love we have
experienced through Christ.
B. The movie “I Am Sam” is about a mentally
challenged man raising his daughter Lucy, on his own. Sam works at Starbucks
and hangs out without four other men with similar disabilities. Lucy is going
into the first grade and needs a new pair of school shoes. Money is tight for
Sam and his friends and what Sam makes at Starbucks barely covers the rent for
his little one bedroom apartment. But Sam and his friends head out to buy Lucy
a pair of shoes.
They all take the task very seriously and
each of them search for what they think is the perfect pair of shoes and bring
everything from blinking shoes to leopard skin shoes. The shoe salesman is
somewhat frustrated but cooperates and Lucy finds a pair of shoes.
Sam asks the shoe salesman how much they
are and he says, “They’re $16.19 with tax.
Sam pulls out all his money and all he has
is $6.25. He begins to explain why he didn’t get his whole paycheck. About that
time all of Sam’s friends, who aren’t in any better financial shape than Sam,
start digging in their pockets and pulling out their money. They lay it all out
on the counter and ask if it will be enough. Lucy smiles and they all leave
with balloons.
I think that’s a great scene which shows
the Sacrificial nature of the offering. No one asked those men to help Sam. But
because of their love for both Sam and Lucy, they pooled what they had and
offered it to Sam. That’s Sacrificial giving.
III. SECOND MILE GIVING:
A.
And that brings us to the Second Mile Giving or the Special gift. In the Sermon
on the Mount Jesus said, Matthew 5:41 (NRSV) “if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second
mile.” That’s sort weird saying but it’s where we get the idea of
Second Mile giving.
A Roman Mile was 1,000 paces. Roman
soldiers had the right to force a local citizen to carry their belongings for
one mile. Sometimes it was used as a show of power. However, to force someone
to carry it any further was seen as almost criminal and a major faux pas.
However, a righteous perons wouldn’t strike back or retaliate for being pressed
into service, Instead, they would go beyond the law and carry the burden the
second mile
Here Jesus is talking about Christian
Character. It’s about more than obeying the rules. It’s about the character of
the heart. It’s about having a generous heart and servant heart. Because at the
heart of Stewardship and Discipleship is both Generosity and Servanthood.
So, why would Jesus tell us to go the
Second Mile when all that was required by law was to go one? When you were a
teenager and left the house to go somewhere, did any of your parents ever say, “Remember
who you are?” In essence that’s what Jesus is telling us; because later in Matthew
5:45 (NRSV) he says the reason we turn the other cheek and go the second mile
is, “So that we may be children of your
Father in heaven.” This is who we are. By our actions and our faithfulness
is kown and God’s Glory in shown.
B.
One afternoon three children entered a flower shop in the city, two boys and a
girl. They were about nine or ten years old, raggedly dressed, but at this
moment well-scrubbed. One of the boys took off his cap and gazed around the
store somewhat doubtfully, then came up to the person who owned the store and
said, “Sir, we’d like something in yellow
flowers.”
There was something in their tense nervous
manner that made the man think that this was a very special occasion. He showed
them some inexpensive yellow spring flowers. The boy who was the spokesman for
the group shook his head no. “I think
we’d like something better than that.”
The man asked, “Do they have to be yellow?” The boy answered, “Yes, sir. You see, Mister, Mickey would like ‘em better if they were
yellow. He had a yellow sweater. I guess he’d like yellow better than any other
color.”
The man asked, “Are they for his funeral?” The boy nodded, suddenly choking
up.
The little girl was desperately struggling
to keep back the tears. “She’s his
sister,” the boy said. “He was a swell
kid. A truck hit him while he was playing in the street.” His lips were
trembling now.
The other boy entered the conversation. “Us kids in his block took up a collection.
We got eighteen cents. Would roses cost an awful lot, Sir — yellow roses, I
mean?”
The man smiled. “It just happens that I have some nice yellow roses here that I’m
offering special today for eighteen cents a dozen.” The man pointed to the
flower case.
“Gee,
those would be swell! Yes, Mickey’d sure like those.”
The man said, “I’ll make up a nice spray with ferns and ribbons. Where do you want me
to send them?”
One of the boys responded, “Would it be all right, Mister, if we took
them with us? We’d kind of like to — you know — give ‘em to Mickey ourselves.
He’d like it better that way.”
The florist fixed the spray of flowers and
accepted the eighteen cents gravely and watched the youngsters trudge out of
the store. (3)
That was Second Mile giving at its best.
That was a Special Gift given out of generosity and love because the florist
remembered who He was.
CONCLUSION:
One day at Church, as the ushers came down
the aisle to take up the offering, Susie asked her mom what was happening. “They’re taking up the offering and when
they get here you can put your nickel in the offering plate,” her mother
answered. Anxiously, Susie replied, “But
this nickel is for Jesus.”
Mom explained how, by putting her nickel
in the offering plate she was giving it to Jesus, because of the many ways in
which her gift would be used to spread God’s Word and serve God in the church.
As the plate came down her row, Susie
carefully placed her nickel in the plate, then turned to her mother and asked, “If that money is for Jesus, why wasn’t
there more in the plate?” (4)
Since, the title of today’s sermon is The
Challenge of Generosity, let me give you a little challenge. “How would you answer Susie? What would you
tell her?”
There are three Biblical examples of
Giving. The Tithe; The Offering and Second Mile giving.
Contrast that to the three kinds of givers
in the world. Grudge Givers, Duty Givers and Thanksgivers.
Grudge
Givers give but they don’t do it with any happiness or joy, they give
grudgingly because they’re supposed to but they’re no happy about it.
Duty Givers, they give more out a sense of
duty. The Bible says give so they give. The Bible says Tithe so they Tithe.
They Give because its their duty to give.
But then there are the Thanks Givers.
These are the folks for whom giving is a joyous spiritual act. They enjoy
giving. They enjoy helping others and sharing because it is one of the ways
they can say Thank You to God for the amazing grace they have experienced
through Christ. It is one of the ways in which they can say Thanks to God for
the ability to give back.
The question is, which type of giver are
you. The Challenge of Generosity is to let Christ transform each of us into
Thanks Givers who can be thankful for “a
dopey deck of cards, a one-eyed bear, a melted candle. And. . . Some bus
tokens.”
This is the Word of the Lord for this day.
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Bibliography
1. Alexander Who Used To Be Rich Last Sunday,
Judith Viorst, Atheneum, 1978.
2. I Am Sam, MMI New Line Productions
3. Parables, Etc. (Saratoga Press, P.O. Box 8,
Platteville, CO, 80651; 970-785-2990), July 1983
4. Preaching-Vol. 2, #1.+
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